This language uses words to affirm other people. For those who prefer this love language, hearing the words "I love you," compliments, or words of appreciation can be very powerful.

For these individuals, actions speak louder than words. They feel loved and cherished when their partner does things to help them, such as cooking a meal, doing the laundry, or any other task that eases their burden.

To a person whose primary love language is receiving gifts, the thoughtfulness and effort behind the gift are what matter most. The gift is a symbol of love and affection from their partner.

This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. It's not just about being in the same room; it’s about focusing all your energy on them. This means putting down the cellphone, turning off the tablet, and making eye contact while listening and interacting with your partner.

For individuals who feel loved through physical touch, physical nearness and touch are paramount. This can include holding hands, cuddling, kissing, and sexual intimacy. These expressions of love are deeply affirming and important to their sense of being loved.